You are wrong in so many ways. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are— you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person—someone who is the problem you want to have. Someone who wrong for you in just the right way.